Monday, November 11, 2013

Challenge Athletes Foundation week.


Challenged Athletes Foundation, what an amazing organization. We drove 24 hours to be there. The first night's dinner was fabulous and laid back, just like being with family. Meeting the amazing athletes and their families and being in California, a beautiful place we had never been, I can say we already miss it and are ready to go back. Abel enjoyed all the kids running about and playing. 
Arizona boarder


After dinner the kids took off and played in the game trucks. Abel and Ella made some awesome new friends: Alana and Carolyn. All the parents had a great meet and greet with athletes from the Paralympics and the parents of the other athletes, which gave everyone more perspective. Parents were able to ask questions and get the answers they needed. It was very informative. 

     Alana and Abel after he had passed out for the night.
Paraplimpan Brent Poppen and Abel with his medal 
Hunter and Abel with Brent 
Alana and Abel 



Friday was the awesome surf clinic and swim. The beautiful weather and all the kids playing and talking was a great sight to see. All the kids loved the surfing. Proud moments were born watching theses kids get up on the board and take that wave. The smiles from that experience will go on for years. 
Ella hitting the waves 

CAF athletes with Travis ricks    




After that was the welcoming of the Million Dollar Challenge riders and a picnic. Watching all theses families welcome their riders home was a touching moment. We got to meet all the families as the kids played games. Abel played his little heart out and made great new friends for life. This was also his first time playing t-ball and golf. We also attended a great dinner that night. It was more up style and buffet style foods which is great for the kids. And awards followed for the amazing altheles. 
Abel playing T-ball

Abel and Hunter, Joey all SB kiddies 




Saturday's events were so awesome to watch and very memorable even though we didn't participate. Abel enjoyed watching his new friends and cheering them on. Then it was off to the CAF headquarters for the runners to sign up for the triathlon. Abel got to sit in his very first racing chair and guess what, he's hooked. We stayed around and talked with other people and families. 

I was told Sunday is the "big day." Boy they weren't kidding, "big" is an understatement. This thing is huge. What an amazing event. Thousands of people making their way around both seeing and cheering on athletes. There were activities for all the kids to enjoy, which Ella loved. Once again, the weather was amazing. Touching stories were told and life changing experiences were had. 


Wrapping things up I will say we are so thankful for this wonderful organization. With it they are changing the world and helping kids and adults no matter the ability. We departed there sad to leave all the wonderful families we had met and the amazing staff of CAF. But the happiness of these events and the welcoming, kind-hearted staff has made our hearts full and given us even more hope for the future.
Sorry guys had to too! Special shout out to Carolyn Odam and Travis Ricks for making sure we where were we should be. And made everything very comfortable. We miss you guys! So happy you both are a part of Abel's Journey. 

Also very huge thanks you to Carolyn for letting Ella hang off your hip the whole time. This ment the world to her. 





Tuesday, October 1, 2013

How Abel Became Known as the Fearless Child.



Abel is known as the youngest WCMX child ever. WCMX is where you take on the awesome ramps and grinds at the skate park just like everyone else, but on a chair. This awesome experience has turned Abel into the Fearless Child. Abel received his first WCMX Mike Box Designs chair at 17 months. At 18 months, Abel attend his very first Life Rolls On event called, "They Will Skate Again." At this time, Abel had never set wheels in a skate park, so we met up with Christiaan "Otter" Bailey who is a jack of all trades for sure. Christiaan is a pro surfer and pro WCMXer, who is obviously on a chair also.
This event opened Abel's eyes up to a whole new world. At 18 months, the youngest child there on a chair, he took off from us and went down his first ramp with the "Otter" right beside him.
His eyes lit up, and he laughed and giggled. He was hooked. At that very moment, there on those ramps, he became the fearless child you know now. We met the founder of Life Rolls On, Jesse Billauer, who is also a fellow wheeler and pro surfer. Jesse is such an amazing person and we were so honored that he took the time to check Abel out.
We can't wait to see him and his awesome team again. Present day Abel is hitting up skate parks any chance he gets; flying down ramps and getting more serious about the ins and outs of it. I believe he has found pure passion in this sport. He is now two years old and is more advanced and fearless than some adults in this sport,
always willing to take on larger and steeper ramps. Remember, safety is always the key factor with him. He is at a point now where we will wait for a pro to step in and give tips and guidance to the Fearless Child.
              ( Abel at the Life Rolls on They Will Skate Again.) 



                     ( Abel and Jesse) 


                ( Abel and Christiaan) 











Friday, September 27, 2013

FAQ for the Fearless Child




I thought I should do a set of FAQs because I get asked a lot of the same questions on a regular basis.


Q. What is Abel's full diagnosis? 


A. Abel's full diagnosis has six parts.


1. Spina Bifida Myelomeningocele: myelomeningocele is the most common type of Spina Bifida. It is a neural tube defect in which the bones of the spine do not completely form, resulting in an incomplete spinal canal. This causes the spinal cord and meninges (the tissues covering the spinal cord) to stick out of the child's back.


2. Hydrocephalus: a medical condition in which there is an abnormal accumulation of cerebrospinal fluid (CSF) in the ventricles, or cavities, of the brain. This may cause increased intracranial pressure inside the skull and progressive enlargement of the head.


3. Hydronephrosis of his right kidney, Grade 5: literally "water inside the kidney" — refers to distension and dilation of the renal pelvis and calyces, usually caused by obstruction of the free flow of urine from the kidney. Untreated, it leads to progressive atrophy of the kidney.


4. Clubbed Foot Positioning: a congenital deformity involving one foot or both (the affected foot looks like it has been rotated internally at the ankle).

5. Chairi Malformation Type 2: a malformation of the brain. It consists of a downward displacement of the cerebellar tonsils through the foramen magnum (the opening at the base of the skull).


6. Delayed swallow: basically when he swallows it sits in the throat and pools and it takes him awhile to swallow, which makes him choke and aspirate when he breathes in. 




Q. Does Abel have a VP shunt? 


A. Yes. A ventriculoperitoneal (VP) shunt is a device used to relieve pressure from the brain caused by fluid accumulation. VP shunting is a surgical procedure that is primarily used to treat a condition called hydrocephalus.



Q. What age did Abel get in a wheelchair? 


A. Abel's dad built his first chair at five months and he has been wheeling himself since he was nine months old. 



Q. How old is Abel? 


A. Abel is two. He was born on September 17, 2011. 



Q. What is Abel's defect level?


A. T9-S1, but we have recently been told his spinal cord becomes normal after L1. ( level of defect meaning: depending on where the opening is on the back depends on what is affected. Bowl,  bladder, leg movement, hand movement, etc... The spinal cord is also affected and Deformed.)



Q.  Is there anything Abel is scared of? 


A. Yes. Abel is scared to death of other people's dogs. Keep in mind, we have six dogs of our own and he has no problems with them.



Q. What kind of therapy does Abel receive and how often? 


A. Physical Therapy for one hour, two times a week, at home through ECI. Speech Therapy, Feeding Therapy, and Occupational Therapy for 30 minutes each, two times a week, at Our Children's House Of Baylor. 



Q. What kind of equipment is used for Abel? 


A. Abel has 8 pieces of equipment as of right now. Three are borrowed from ECI, and the rest are his. Please remember that this equipment will last him until he's at least 5 years   Plus. 

1. Abel's first chair: built by his dad at 5 months old. 

2. Wheeled stander: allows him to bear weight and wheel at the same time. He got this at 11 months old.    

3. Power chair: we very rarely use this chair because he prefers to wheel himself. It's only for large places that he would tire out easy. He received his power chair at 12 months old.

4. Manual chair: this chair is a little on the heavier side for Abel to push. He received this chair at 14 months old. 

5. Mike Box Designs chair: this is Abel's favorite chair and he never lets it out of his sight. He received this chair at 17 months, and no, this chair will not grow with him. He will have to be fitted for a new chair when he outgrows it. 

6. Standing frame without wheels: this is ECI's equipment. 

7. Kidwalk: allows him to bear weight and wheel to make the legs move at the same time. This is also ECI's equipment. This will go back soon.

8. Gait Trainer walker: this is the newest borrowed Equipment ECI which allows him to bear full weight with some support.



Q. What is his level of feeling and movement? 


A. Abel has pretty much no feeling below the hips. He does have feeling in the groin and bum area and can move knee to hip, but nothing below the knee. The knees are very weak, but he can stand with just AFOs (Ankle-Foot Orthoses; see below for definition). 



Q. New technology that is helping Abel? 


A. There are a few new technologies that are currently helping Abel. 

1. The E-stim Unit is new for him. An E-stim Unit is an electrical device that sends currents through unbroken skin via small electrodes that target muscles. This device has a wide variety of uses within the medical field including muscle toning, muscle spasm relaxation, and pain prevention. Within the field of physical therapy, E-stim is important for rehabilitative purposes and enhancement of the healing process.

2. Abel also has AFOs (Ankle-Foot Orthoses). An AFO is an orthosis or brace (usually plastic) that supports the ankle and foot. AFOs are externally applied and intended to control position and motion of the ankle, compensate for weakness, or correct deformities. AFOs can be used to support weak limbs, or to position a limb with contracted muscles into a more normal position. He was just fitted for KAFOs (Knee-Ankle-Foot Orthoses).

3. We just started using the Air Splints, which are awesome. They are pretty much like an arm floatie that goes on the leg to hold his knee straight. 

4. We will also be starting Vital Stim soon on Abel's face and neck to strengthen the muscles. (The VitalStim® Therapy System is an adjunctive modality to traditional exercise that unites the power of electrical stimulation with the benefits of swallowing exercises. Combining VitalStim and traditional therapy allows clinicians to accelerate strengthening, restore function, and help the brain remap the swallow. Research has demonstrated that combining these therapies results in better outcomes than using either one alone.)


I want to Thank everyone for keeping up with the Fearless child's Journey. 




Tuesday, September 24, 2013

Fearless child's beginning


This is my first blog. By no means am I a journalist so bear with me here. Let me do a brief introduction my name is Heather (mom),  Brian (dad) and Big sister Ella. Not only are we parents to one Fearless child but also to a strong willed little girl named Ella who is 6 years old and was diagnosed at 3 with High Functioning autism ( Asperger Syndrome). Our life is one busy mess but it's our life and wouldn't have it any other way. Let me give you Abel's Bio so we can get to the present day. 
At 14 weeks of my Pregnancy we found out we were having a child myelomeningocele spina bifida and hydrocephalus. I was totally terrified what the Future held for all of us. But we kept on going. We were told so many things from the point of Aborting my pregnancy at 20 weeks. To our child will be a vegetable. But that was not going to happened. At 32 weeks I was told I would need to Deliver. But I refused the doctors told me he was fine. So I fought to keep him put. I held out to 40 weeks And September 17th, 2011 born via C-section at 5:45pm Abel J.T. Rose was born.

Abel was screaming and kicking his way out. I was so proud to hear that cry. After that they wrapped him up and put him next to my face to kiss him and off he went to the NICU. His dad followed and stayed with him. He was perfect in every way 7.14lbs and 19 in long. After I came to a little better they took me to see the little man. At that point I remember being wheeled in still in a bed to see him. My heart hit the floor and I started to cry I felt this is my fault it was a awful feeling. Seeing him all bandaged up and people hovering him. But he was still perfect after of about 10 mins they took me back to my room and updated us and he was going back to have the back Closure. At that point we where told his opening was in a very odd spot a that they normally don't see open. And couldn't tell us really tell us anything at that point. After surgery I was able to go see him. He was such a big boy breathing on his own and no pain meds after surgery they said everything went great and I seen his little eyes open and he grabbed my finger it was love. He knew I needed him to let me know he was ok. And few day pasted and then the talk of a VP shunt to be placed.  His head was pretty good size at that point reading 63 Cm around and 3 days after birth the shunt was finally placed. His head Began to get smaller and smaller in passing days. He was in the NICU only a week and we went home. Lets speed up here first few months where up and down tons of UTI we weren't cathing. Tons of hospital stays doctors appointment, ER visits, etc... Well after 6 month we finally had to start cathing ugh I don't even know where to Begin with that. But we got through it .Only to stop 2 months later. Abel was Diagnosed with hydronephrosis in his right kidney.
    (Abel's first chair made by dad)

At 6 months my husband built his first wheel chair and he took off at 9 months in it and has never slowed down. 12 month his first wheeled stander and so on and so on the Equipment. We figured out No matter what equipment he's put in adapts too very quickly. His first wheelie I will never forget first time he got his mike box Designs chair.
                ( Mike Box Designs ) 
smiled and popped it back he was 17 months at this point. And he went flying through the house in the chair laughing and giggling at that point he became the fearless kid you know today. Today things have gotten at little easier he is so Independent. And I write this to let other parents and adults know its not the end of the world. Anything is possible never stop trying. Abel is no different from anyone else and Abel can out roll most running adults. Lol Believe me I know
This is Abel's Facebook page:
.https://www.facebook.com/heather.rose.98892




                                                    (Abel and Ella)